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Ignorance, arrogance and the rise to popularity due to these two negative characteristics may increase your blood pressure, get you defensive and ready to act out.

But, wait…

Radical actions are not the answer. Allah says, “Fight in the cause of Allah those who fight you, but do not transgress limits; for Allah loves not transgressors” (Al-Baqarah 2:190).

Sometimes you stumble upon right-winged pundits or those who are not convinced that stereotypes are never true. When talking to such people stay to the point. Do disagree but don’t remain adamant on changing them. Your attempt at logic will suffice even if they disagree.

The  Qur'an says, “To every People have we appointed rites and ceremonies which they must follow, let them not then dispute with you on the matter, but do invite (them) to your Lord: for you are assuredly on the Right Way. If they do wrangle with you, say, 'God knows best what it is you are doing. God will judge between you on the Day of Judgment concerning the matters in which you differ” (Al-Hajj 21:76-69).

Remember Allah said to the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), “If then they turn away, We have not sent you as a guard over them. Your duty is but to convey (the Message)…” (Ash-Shura 42:48).

Everything in moderation is essential. When inviting one to the teaching of Islam
Allah says, “Invite (all) to the Way of your Lord with wisdom and beautiful preaching; and argue with them in ways that are best and most gracious. Your Lord knows best, who have strayed from His Path, and who receive guidance” (An-Nahl 16:125).

It is clear that not everyone will understand the message of Islam or why you follow it. Allah says, “And say, 'The truth is from your Lord, so whosoever wants let him believe and whosoever wants let him deny
(An-Nahl 16:29).

Though others may push their values, morals and teachings on you, don’t push back harder. Be gracious and gentle with your words and actions.





 


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‘And she grew, and grew, and grew!’.

With the federal government’s budget rising higher and higher, what many are wondering is why many aren’t questioning. Years and years over, millions of taxpayers’ dollars have been disappearing through the poorly monitored, and more so overlooked, cracks of the government system. Where exactly is the money going?

Upon questioning, tentative responses provided by the representatives may include: long term investments in medical research, upgrades in social security procedures and policies, and massive funding directed towards improving the current education system. Since these claims are proving to be fruitless, many have been led to believe otherwise.

Spendings have turned up unaccounted for, and a lot of it has disappeared for the personal gain of those hands that have been stained by the blood of corruption. In a way, it’s clean money, used for dirty deeds. Feel free to disagree. So whether it be Adam Giambrone using the money for getting a free cab ride to go see Kirsten Lucas, or simply the addition of a new pool in a politician’s multi million dollar house, the budget, like the lies seem to be getting larger and larger.

And unlike those in the story of Alice in Wonderland, there are no magic mushrooms to fix this one.  


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Since I was eight years old, there has been one tradition that my family has been partaking in that I don’t think will ever get old ! Every Friday, without a doubt, my father attends Jumuah (Friday prayers) at Madina Masjid, and every Friday afternoon, I come home from school to the wonderful smell of Madina Halal Pizza.

Madina Halal Pizza is located on the north side of Danforth in between Greenwood and Donlands (1078 Danforth Ave) and it has the best pizza I have ever tasted. I have gone to numerous pizza places and tried many, many different pizzas, both homemade and store bought, but none has come even close in taste.

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It’s a cozy little restaurant, snuggled in between a line of other small shops. The only difference is, on Fridays, it is overflowing with people. The employees are amazing and the customer service could never be better.

The pizza is always fresh and extra cheesy; their combos are the best deals to get for lunch.The following are their combos which are (1 Slice of Pizza by itself is $1.50):
  • 2 Slices of Pizza and a pop (or bottled water): $3.50
  • 1 Slice of Pizza and a pop (or bottled water): $2.25
They also sell chicken wings and whole chicken as well (which is also awesome!). I am not sure about the rest of their menu, but I do know that it probably tastes as good as everything else I have tried.

 I think the only thing that should be worked on is getting more employees for their busy days, Friday. Occasionally, I’ve noticed that the pizza slices are not always equal...which isn’t necessarily a problem until you realize that your slice of pizza is no bigger than half a slice of bread...

Other than that, the prices are reasonable and the food is great and always fresh, and it’s 100% HALAL. What more could a person want?

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Early this week, I attended an event on campus. It was called ‘Palestine: Personal Reflection on Oppression.’ It featured Reverend Dale Finch who worked in the West Bank for nine months from 2007-2008, and Dr. Abdul Rahman Lawendy a surgeon who worked in Gaza during the Israeli assault of 2008-2009. With the aid of pictures, they recounted the stories of Palestinians struggling to live normal lives under occupation. Overall it was very good, though sparsely attended, event.  
Dr. Lawendy’s accounts were especially harrowing. His experience living with a civilian population under siege was accompanied by picture slides of the destruction--mosques and hospitals that were deliberate shelled, cattle that were intentionally killed, civilians that were incinerated and maimed. His verbal testimony and visual evidence of the living conditions of Muslims in Gaza during last year’s assault provided the listeners with an intimate view of a war whose narrative is often dictated by the most powerful party.  

Israel’s media campaign is very well organized and very well funded. Even today as the Israeli Air Force launched fresh air strikes on Gaza,  the dominant analysis of events puts rocket attacks that killed a farm worker un Isreal, which is said to have been launched from Gaza, as the reason for Israel’s renewed aggression (http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/8577492.stm).  
However, you will hear very few news reports on the continual siege of Gaza that started well before last year’s assault and that continues until the present. And you will hear very few news reports on policies that are designed to further the system of Apartheid in Israel, policies that are intended to squeeze Muslims out of living space and establish the Israeli population as dominant. The only recent publicized example of this policy is the expansion of settlement building in East Jerusalem, and elsewhere in the West bank, a process so flagrantly begun that even the United States protested forcefully--for a time (http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/8573760.stm).

The last example makes plain that this conflict, as it is so flippantly called, is actually not a conflict. It is a humananitarian and moral tragedy, calling it that is not being dramatic. Take a look at the evidence: a displaced population living under continuous military occupation, people subjected to arbitrary violence and detention, the destruction of livelihoods and the general subjugation of an entire people.

Given that reality, it is clear that the oppression of Muslims in Palestine cannot simply be called a ‘conflict.’ Would Apartheid South Africa be called a ‘conflict?’ or the British repression of Indian independence, or Stalin’s various purges ‘conflicts?’  Each of those examples differ from the current situation in Palestine, but are fundamentally alike in that they all involve people that have been subjugated and besieged by a government force more powerful than they are. However, in all of these cases, though it took some time, the world called oppression as it saw oppression. Unlike now when the Israeli Defence Force bombs a school, the justification of the act is accepted from them without asking for any evidence.  

Thinking back on the sparsely attended Palestine event on campus this week, the media and government newspeak, general public apathy and the Canadian Tory government’s blatant pro-Israel policies--yeah, they’re still the government--(http://www.thestar.com/news/canada/article/740510---anti-semitic-charge-angers-aid-group), I wonder what our level of commitment to Palestine is? Is it greater than commitment to Starbucks? 

When Dr. Lawendy and Reverend Finch recounted their experiences and we listened and we were shocked and we were sympathetic. But what is caring if we don’t at least take steps to make a change? Upon reflection of the event, I found myself asking when was the last time I made du’aa for the Muslims in Palestine? When was the last time, I bothered to join a boycott of companies complicit in the occupation and home demolition?  When was the last time I at least signed an online petition? When was the last time I gave charity for the Muslims in Palestine?

And Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala) has said in the Qur’an: (translation)  

‘By no means shall you attain Al-Birr (piety, righteousness — here it means Allaah’s reward, i.e. Paradise), unless you spend (in Allaah’s Cause) of that which you love"  [Aal ‘Imraan 3:92]

And He (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala) has said in the Qur'an: (translation)  “But if you remain patient and become Al-Muttaqoon (the pious), not the least harm will their cunning do to you. Surely, Allah surrounds all that they do” [Aal ‘Imraan 3:120]  

 

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That time of year has come again, and most of us university students are swamped with papers, assignments, labs, presentations and exams. This time is a very stressful one for most of us, but we need to remember that even throughout this stressful time, we have to be grateful.

Just two days ago, a friend and I were discussing how no matter how thankful we are to Allah (swt), it can never be enough. We complain about exams but we do not realize that we make up a very small percent of the world that has the privilege and the resources available to get a university education. This reminds me of the saying “Behold I was without shoes and complaint, until I met a man who had no feet.”

My goal in writing this piece is to remind us that we have so much, and we can never be thankful enough. We should not be ungrateful by complaining, but rather put our full effort forth, and use our education to do something productive, inshAllah. I will leave everyone with a few duas that can be used before and after studying.

 
At any time, recite ‘Rabb-e-zidnee ilmaa’ (O Allah! Give me ilm/knowledge)
Dua Before Studying: 

.اللَّهُمَّ انْفَعْنِي بِمَا عَلَّمْـتَنِي وَ عَلِّمْنِي مَا يَنْفَعُنِي 

Allâhumma infa‘nî bimâ ‘allamtanî wa ‘allimnî ma yanfa‘unî. 
{Oh Allah! Make useful for me what You taught me and teach me knowledge that will be useful to me.} 
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.اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ فَهْمَ النَّ بِيِّينَ وَ حِفْظَ الْمُرْسَلِينَ الْمُقَرَّبِينَ 

Allâhumma innî as’aluka fahm an-nabiyyîna wa hifdh al-mursalîn al-muqarrabîn. 
{Oh Allah! I ask You for the understanding of the prophets and the memory of the messengers, and those nearest to You.} 

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.اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ لِسَانِي عَامِرًا بِذِكْرِكَ وَ قَلْبِي بِخَشْيَتِكَ 

Allâhumma ij‘al lisânî ‘âmiram bi-dhikrika wa qalbî bi-khashyatika. 
{Oh Allah! Make my tongue full of Your remembrance, and my heart with consciousness of You.} 

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Dua After Studying: 

اللهم اني أستو دعك ما قرأت وما حفظت فرده علي عند حاجتي إليه انك على ما تشاء قدير وأنت حسبنا الله 
ونعم الوكيل 

“Allahumma inni astaodeeka ma qara’tu wama hafaz-tu. Farudduhu ‘allaya inda hajati elahi. Innaka ‘ala ma-tasha’-u qadeer wa anta hasbeeya wa na’mal wakeel” 
{Oh Allah! I entrust you with what I have read and I have studied. Oh Allah! Bring it back to me when I am in need of it. Oh Allah! You do whatever you wish, you are my availer and protector and the best of aid.} 
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Dua While Studying Something Difficult: 

اللهم لا سهل إلا ما جعلته سهلا أنت تجعل الحزن إذا ما شئت سهلا 

“Allahumma la sahla illama ja-’altahu sahla anta taj ‘alu al hazana eza ma shi’ta sahal.” 
{“Oh Allah! Nothing is easy except what you have made easy. If you wish, you can make the difficult easy.”} 


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Dua During Anxiety

Allahumma inni a'oodhoo bika minal-hammi-walhazan. Wa'a oodhoo bika minal-ghammi-wal-kasal. Wa'a oodhoo bika minal jubni wal bukhl. Wa'a oodhoo bikal min ghalabatid-dayni-waqarir rijal.

Oh Allah, I seek refuge in You from worry and grief, from helplessness and laziness, from cowardice and stinginess, and from overpowering of debt and from oppression of men.


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READ AND FOLLOW THE INSERT. STORE BETWEEN 10*C – 27*C.

The insistent and seemingly essential instructions on a box of L’Oreal Paris Feria Multi-Faceted Shimmering Colour hair dye. 

Rampant are technologies and procedures claiming to enhance and modify the amount of aesthetic appeal in today’s world. Millions of dollars are carefully slipped into the pockets of those, whose minds have been known to conjure up mass marketing business strategies, which aim to constantly inform, persuade, and later remind, the convenience and comfort that these products offer. Avoid contact of this product with eyes and skin, they state, for the risk of causing damage to such a fragile part of the human body. Even more fragile, are the complexities of the human mind.

That which one considers to be beautiful, whether it be the nature of the object or the object itself, is entirely dependent upon the character of our experience. Much is revealed about one’s faculty of taste through the judgement, interpretation, and understanding of the aesthetic character of objects of the natural environment, and those created by human beings. The human body, and all that it consists of, is a creation. A creation meant to entice, suffice, and one in which we should take delight. 

Altering our physical appearances for reasons other than health, whether it be changing the colour of your hair, eyes, or skin, is a product of the manifestation of clearly delineated sets of sociological and cultural ideas about what beauty compromises of. Although rarely ever personally mentioned or openly accepted, a blond hair, blue-eyed, bimbo bombshell seems to satisfy society’s definition of beauty these days. The lighter the colour, the better. 

Accompanying this reduction in shade is also one expected of our mores, beliefs and conducts. Loose morals, and an unnaturally heightened interest in one’s sexual appeal seem to concurrently be fostered and nurtured in a nefarious and petulant way. Devoid of any spiritual recognition, or basic appreciation, these definitions and standards have washed over us, and left unwanted residue. Thoroughly rinse after application.

We as individuals have to establish our own definition of beauty, one that includes ourselves in the context, instil it into the very core of our being, and genuinely abide by its criteria on a daily basis. Expand the definition due to experience when necessary, and have humility, indebtedness, and modesty following close behind. Make sure to make every shade shimmer. And we don’t have to keep this product out of the reach of children. 



No appointment with a master colourist is needed. Look inside of you. 

Read and follow the insert. Store somewhere close for periodic future reference. 

And simply be.   

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As the Vancouver 2010 games wrapped up and Canada swelled up in pride with its highest gold medal count and its victory over the USA in hockey; I sat there in front of my TV with a smile on my face.

That was then and this is now…

From the opening ceremony to closing ceremony I’ve realized that I was never represented as a host. Because I’m not a fiddler nor am I an aboriginal (to be fair the Host Nations were not 100% correctly represented – e.g. the Inukshuk does not represent any of the four Host Nations).  I am a Canadian born Muslim with Indian ancestry.  Not an ounce of my culture, beliefs or what makes me Canadian was represented.

Where was the presentation of minorities that make up the multicultural fabric that is Canada in the Olympics? Did I miss this segment? Was it on Pay Per View?

Canada had its chance to eliminate several stereotypes we have in the world. Rather we decided to dedicate our tax funds and our international air time to further your misconceptions of us. But, hey at least now you know we can make fun of ourselves. We are good at that. So don’t feel left out when you’re making fun of us instead give us a call so we can join in with you.

The Olympic Games have become a modern day battlefield where the country with most medals basks in its supremacy. Moving away from the amateur sports competition it has become about the best professional and therefore has become exclusive to those athletes who can afford the latest and most expensive gear.

So, when an athlete wins a medal how does a nation benefit? Who do the ceremonies represent?

Maybe I will have an answer by 2014. 

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So before the mobs start hiking up their dhotis, rolling up their sleeves, and lighting up their torches, about how I consciously and voluntarily allowed the juices from an 8 ounce piece of centre-cut top sirloin steak, seasoned and grilled to perfection, served over grilled onions and mushrooms, and topped with jumbo black tiger shrimp… let me tell you that the chef for the night was Chef Afzal Bhatti.

Affy’s Premium Grill is a pleasant little savoury surprise that some people have been fortunate enough to stumble upon, and then there are those that haven’t. Located in Pickering, Ontario, Affy’s is a halal grill and restaurant specializing in steaks, chicken, and seafood. For those of you who are tired of eating rabbit food, and whose stomachs’ have been demanding ‘Where’s the meat?!’, this hidden gem is surely a sight for sore eyes.

Upon entrance, the mahogany coloured walls and the plush maroon restaurant booths, accompanied by the dim suspended lightings, conjure up an atmosphere of comfortable complacency, celebration, and good cheer. Separated by a wall is the other seating component of the restaurant: white tablecloth laden casual dining tables and chairs reserved for larger groups. And for you guys who are worried about missing the hockey game: two large wall mounted flat screen TVs surrounded by black leather couches. Taking in the smells of roasting, grilling, sautéing, and deep-frying, all while watching Kessel shoot the winning goal… Nice.

Although the place gets quite busy during the evenings and weekends, taking your orders and serving to your needs are female waitresses of different ages and ethnicities, but all quite courteous and efficient. Moderately garbed in unpretentious black, their uniforms, like the food, are tasteful. And since the menu is moderately priced… you’ll have a smile on your face when she brings you the bill.

Cajun Fried Calamari, Filet Mignon au Poivre, and BBQ Beef Back Ribs, are some of the higher end items on the menu. Lighter fare such as salads, sandwiches, and pasta are also available. An aspect that many took a liking to, was the choice of sides that came with each item. The steaks, seafood, and chicken, for example, are served with your choice of any two of the following sides: French fries, baked potato, sautéed vegetables, rice, mashed potatoes, garden salad, or Caesar salad. The portions are generous, and seem to satisfy the average man’s appetite. The gravies present with some of the sides, such as the mashed potato and the baked potato, were found to be a bit overpowering, and therefore not very appetizing. Items known as ‘Entrée Enhancers’ were also found on the menu, which were designed to add that special touch to their already authentic menu items, such as Shrimp Skewers, as well as Lobster Tail. With all of the food that you’ll be swallowing, you’ll need something cool and refreshing to wash it down. You can opt for the regular pop, juice, or shake, or if you’re feeling like experimenting a little, why not try their non alcoholic versions of alcoholic drinks such as Pina Coladas, Banana Banshees, Peach Balinis, or Margaritas.

So if you’re ever in the area, or even feel like trying something new, why not head over to Affy’s Premium Grill?
Make sure to bring along an empty stomach, your wallet, and a group of good friends, and it’ll make for a night that you won’t forget. Bon appetit!


AFFYS PREMIUM GRILL

2200 BROCK ROAD, UNIT C2
PICKERING, ONTARIO, L1X 2R2
PHONE: (905) 239-5415
FAX: (905) 239-5416

Website: http://www.affysgrill.com
E-mail: info@AFFYSGRILL.com  
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Annual week-long campus demonstrations condemning Israeli activities have come to be known as IAW (Israeli Apartheid Week). Activism and free speech have always been the right of Canadians, but recently, MPPs from all three political parties passed a motion by a Progressive Conservative Party MPP.

This is a cause of worry and frustration because the right of expression is a fundamental right of all Canadians, and it seems that the Canadian government is being biased towards Israel in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

NDP party leader Andrea Howarth was one of the few who openly denounced this motion introduced by the Tories. The Tories are arguing that IAW can be offensive and likened to hate speech, but in reality it is just voicing the discontent with Israel’s oppressive methods towards Palestinians.

As university students, we should have the right to analyze, evaluate and criticize any actions or policies…whether they are domestic or international. If universities cannot be a platform for students who are encouraged to analyze and criticize, where shall we take our thoughts?
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My thoughts come in the form of facebook statuses or tweets.
They are short, concise and to the point.
Often very revealing and like sorts of epiphanies. 

I’ve been told due to my short sentence structures I sound very adolescent.
The word count is my greatest enemy. My vocabulary ceases to exist after the period.
And then I ruminate before starting the next sentence.
Fortunately like my thoughts the attention spans of many are as short.
Giving bursts of revelations helps the absorbing process.
The times when miracles do happen and I manage to find words to explain my feelings;
I find the diffusion process failing.

Long winded arguments in text are a turn-off.
Rather watch a video or listen to the same song on repeat.

So, I think? What is better?
My creativity dwindling or well thought out sentences structures no one will read?
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