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Ignorance, arrogance and the rise to popularity due to these two negative characteristics may increase your blood pressure, get you defensive and ready to act out.

But, wait…

Radical actions are not the answer. Allah says, “Fight in the cause of Allah those who fight you, but do not transgress limits; for Allah loves not transgressors” (Al-Baqarah 2:190).

Sometimes you stumble upon right-winged pundits or those who are not convinced that stereotypes are never true. When talking to such people stay to the point. Do disagree but don’t remain adamant on changing them. Your attempt at logic will suffice even if they disagree.

The  Qur'an says, “To every People have we appointed rites and ceremonies which they must follow, let them not then dispute with you on the matter, but do invite (them) to your Lord: for you are assuredly on the Right Way. If they do wrangle with you, say, 'God knows best what it is you are doing. God will judge between you on the Day of Judgment concerning the matters in which you differ” (Al-Hajj 21:76-69).

Remember Allah said to the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), “If then they turn away, We have not sent you as a guard over them. Your duty is but to convey (the Message)…” (Ash-Shura 42:48).

Everything in moderation is essential. When inviting one to the teaching of Islam
Allah says, “Invite (all) to the Way of your Lord with wisdom and beautiful preaching; and argue with them in ways that are best and most gracious. Your Lord knows best, who have strayed from His Path, and who receive guidance” (An-Nahl 16:125).

It is clear that not everyone will understand the message of Islam or why you follow it. Allah says, “And say, 'The truth is from your Lord, so whosoever wants let him believe and whosoever wants let him deny” (An-Nahl 16:29).

Though others may push their values, morals and teachings on you, don’t push back harder. Be gracious and gentle with your words and actions.





 

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