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So it’s that time of year again! The local stores have sales on frozen samosas, the aunties are calling one another booking iftaar dates at their respective locations and KIH has their Ramadan countdown up. All of this means one thing, “Ramadan is coming people!”

All of the above mentioned are obvious signs that Ramadan is just around the corner, but we also need to keep in mind the true essence and importance of Ramadan. It is the month in which the Quran was revealed and it is the month that should ideally, recharge us as Muslims and strengthen our emaan. The gates of Jannah are wide open and shaitan is tied up. We need to remind ourselves that we are fortunate enough, inshAllah, to see yet another Ramadan.

Since Ramadan is approximately ten days away, we should start preparing ourselves for it right about now, if we have not already done so. Some useful tips are to set (realistic) goals for oneself. Realistic does not mean that it should not be challenging, realistic means that you should put on your plate only as much as you could achieve in a certain time period. Goals can range from things such as eating in moderation, finishing the Quran a certain number of times, going for tarawih each night or even starting to pray your five daily prayers on time.

Ramadan is also a month which conveniently brings the family together. Since we live in our own busy lives, many of us do not even get to eat a couple of meals a week with our families. Ramadan is such a time where during suhoor, everyone sits and eats together, and during iftaar, everyone joins the dinner table once again. This is amongst one of the many blessings that Ramadan brings, and I pray that inshAllah this Ramadan is beneficial for each and every one of us and that we achieve more in this month than we think we can, inshAllah.

 

Note: feel free to share Ramadan goals in the comments section of this article, inshAllah it will be beneficial for all of us if we can also take on those goals!

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Sarochka
07/31/2010 11:26am

My goals, inshAllah:

1) Refrain from worldly speech after Isha prayer based on this hadith (and others):

Abu Barzah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) disliked going to bed before the `Isha' (night) prayer and indulging in conversation after it.''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

2) Stop wearing make-up outside home.

I encourage people to add their goals here, too, coz I find that when I share my goals with people it gives me a greater sense of accountability and motivates me to stick to my word.

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Zenaira
07/31/2010 11:52pm

YAY alhamdulillah it really is that time of year again! Awesome article Aish! So true about setting realistic goals, "eating in moderation" - I wonder who you were thinking of when you came up with that one ;). "Ramadan is such a time where during suhoor, everyone sits and eats together, and during iftaar, everyone joins the dinner table once again." - that made me teary eyed! I am so excited!

I think a good reminder for everyone, especially myself since I'm guilty of this, is to continue praying and learning, even after Ramadan is done. Everyone is especially passionate during Ramadan and then that slowly dies down as the year progresses. Obviously not intentionally, but it still happens. We need to stay active even after Ramadan ends. And sooo as great as it is to set goals for Ramadan, there's no reason why we shouldn't start them right now. :P

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anas
08/03/2010 1:45pm

One of my goals is to not blame anything on fasting. And not say it is affecting my performance.

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